We were okay Ha-ha.

Jemuel and I were okay now, Ha-ha. I went to their house today to see him because I haven’t seen him for almost 1week. Again, I went there to see only him, Ha-ha. But of course there is his mother and amf tita. Ha-ha. I really felt uncomfortable so we decided to go to SM North. We went to The Annex to look for laptops, maybe one of these days Jemuel will have a new one. Well I’m happy because that’s all he ever wanted. I hope his mother will buy him the one we saw in Dell or Asus. We ate at Yoshinoya and shares stories. The SM was closing when we went home. I’m quite happy because we’re okay again, but I’m sad because I know on Saturday he will go to Japan. Hu-hu. By the way before the settlement was happen I was in SM North and Trinoma by that time, I planned to go to URC to post my pass letter, but my picture took 20 minutes and if ever I will still go, maybe their already closed. I also inquired at Fitness First about their exercise program, its expensive I don’t think I will enroll there. In that time Jemuel and I were texting, I knew he’s mad at me by that time, why? I don’t know. Ha-ha. And I felt maybe its time to make things okay since he said sorry for what he has said before and he still loves me. So then he invited me in their house that’s why I went to their house. Anyway, finally! I already got my Starbucks planner with a free cheap bag. Its so eeew Ha-ha. If you would noticed I erased my previous posts regarding our break-up, Ha-ha just to make things forget. This is to sum up everything that happens today.

9 Reasons People Cheat

So, are cheaters born cheaters, or do certain situations cause people to cheat? Probably a little bit of both. Here are some situations that make people cheat:

1. Bored
I’d say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It’s tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it’s still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.

3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.

4. Because They Let You
Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you’ll continue to take them back.

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it’s not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it’s only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.

7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you’re in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you’re still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you’ve proven that a new person can be attracted to you.

8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.

9. They Don’t Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you’re “together,” and you think date #2 is when you’re “together.” If you haven’t talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.

I don’t understand why people don’t break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you’ve ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?